• They’re changing. Teens are between childhood and adulthood – trying to fi gure out who they are.
• It’s hard. With so many physical and emotional changes going on, they struggle with their identity, emotions, bodies and selves.
• They aren’t talkers. Your teen may have trouble expressing what’s on his mind. They may not share as much.
• Friends matter. Your teen may seem to prefer friends over family. It’s OK. They still need you to be a parent.
• They want independence. Teens may push against parent expectations. Be consistent, but allow them choices, too.
• Be prepared. There may be confl ict at home as teens learn how to make decisions and communicate their needs.
• Be patient. Your teen will grow up.

To Learn More...

• KidsHealth, A Parent’s Guide to Surviving the Teen Years, www.kidshealth.org/parent/growth/growing/adolescence.html
• Understanding Adolescent Behavior, www.focusonyouth.com/pdfs/Understanding%20Adolescent%20Behavior.pdf
• “Developing Character in Teens” Jim Fay “Parenting Teenagers” Don Dinkmeyer and Gary D. McCay
• “The Case Against Adolescence: Rediscovering the Adult in Every Teen”, Robert Epstein, Ph.D.

For More Direct Help...

• The Family Conservancy, 913-342-1110
• Synergy Services, 816-587-4100
• Crittenton Children’s Services, 816-765-6600