• Keep it real. Talk about how media can influence teens to do things and spend money in ways that aren’t good for them.
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  Think it through. Discuss purchases and how to separate what is necessary from what is simply a status item.
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  Discuss star power. Discourage teens from glorifying celebrities for their possessions or lifestyles.
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  Spotlight your teen. Name the qualities that make your child a “star.”
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  Don’t over-indulge. Don’t buy whatever your child wants. Helping your teen work toward purchases teaches discipline.
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  Show gratitude. Help your teen recognize the “blessings” in their life.
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  Value people above things. Do things as a family—eat together regularly, plan outings and get involved in the community.

To Learn More...

• “ABC’s of Raising an Entitled Child: How to Make Monsters Out of Miracles”, Jim Fay and Dawn Billings
  “From Innocence to Entitlement”, Jim Fay and Dawn Billings
  “The Shelter of Each Other: Rebuilding Our Families” Mary Pipher, Ph.D.
  Commonsense Media, www.commonsensemedia.org

For More Direct Help...

• The Family Conservancy, 913-342-1110
  Synergy Services, 816-753-8002
  Contact your local YMCA or YWCA