Self-esteem is a function of how people perceive themselves. The closer people see themselves to how they would like to be, the higher their self-esteem. Self-esteem is very important during this period of development.

During these years children begin school and close friendships develop. The development of a positive, healthy self-esteem reduces the risk of your child becoming involved with drugs and alcohol, becoming sexually active, and doing poorly in school. People with high self-esteem are capable of making good decisions, proud of their accomplishments, and able to cope with frustration. Self-esteem is closely tied to family and environment. You can foster self-esteem by:

• Giving your child unconditional love. Distinguish between who your child is and what he does.
• Respecting your child. Treat her as you would like to be treated.
• Praising your child for accomplishments and good doings, and being less quick to point out wrong doings.
• Communicating with your child. Be an askable parent. Allow your child to express ideas, feelings and opinions. Listen and let your child know he is important.
• Encouraging your child to use talents and to be independent.
• Giving choices and letting your child accept the consequences. Be consistent in establishing and enforcing limits.